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		<title>Curtis Sittenfeld &#8211; Rodham</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[‘Awfully opinionated for a girl’ is what they call Hillary as she grows up in her Chicago suburb. Smart, diligent, and a bit plain, that’s the general consensus.&#8230;]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>‘Awfully opinionated for a girl’ is what they call Hillary as she grows up in her Chicago suburb. Smart, diligent, and a bit plain, that’s the general consensus. Then Hillary goes to college, and her star rises. At Yale Law School, she continues to be a leader— and catches the eye of driven, handsome and charismatic Bill. But when he asks her to marry him, Hillary gives him a firm ‘No’.</p>
<p>The rest, as they say, isn’t history. How might things have turned out for them, for America, for the world itself, if Hillary Rodham had really turned down Bill Clinton?</p>
<p><em>Rodham</em> is Curtis Sittenfeld’s sixth novel, echoing her 2008 novel American Wife in which she imagined the life of a first lady like Laura Bush. Full of lively conversation, deep politics, and a lot of sex, it’s a pacy novel that follows the life of a firey woman who could hold her own against anyone in political office.</p>
<p>Sittenfield is clearly a Clinton fan, and whilst you don’t have to be to read the novel, it certainly helps if you have some interest in their life. It begins with the famous speech at her 1969 Wellesley graduation ceremony where Hillary told off the conservative senator who spoke before her, which sets the tone for the energy of the main protagonist. Women in the pubic eye are often held to ludicrously high standards, and the author challenges this at the same time as creating warmth and empathy to a woman who is not at all cold and calculating.</p>
<p>Even though she doesn’t stay with him, and leaves at the first sign of infidelity, Hillary does truly love Bill – and it wasn’t just sexual. ‘I knew plenty of smart people, but I’d never before encountered a person whose intelligence sharpened mine the way his did,’ she says. There’s a certain thrill that comes with seeing her in emotional and domestic settings, so far removed from the reputation that has been built up over the last few years. But she’s also a political powerhouse, and Sittenfeld draws the conclusion that without Hillary Bill’s political career would never have happened.</p>
<p>Most women in the public eye are full of contradictions. Is there any value in imagining an alternate life for them and seeing where those layers take us? Maybe not, but Sittenfield is a good writer and tells a story with emotion and empathy.</p>
<p>How different the world could have been.</p>
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		<title>Valerie Nifora &#8211; I Asked the Wind: A Collection of Romantic Poetry </title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2020 08:55:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I Asked the Wind: A Collection of Romantic Poetry by Valerie Nifora is a journey into romance, love and loss through poetry. Handwritten in a journal and hidden away until&#8230;]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Asked-Wind-Collection-Romantic-Poetry-ebook/dp/B07X1VFBP7" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>I Asked the Wind: A Collection of Romantic Poetry</em></a> by Valerie Nifora is a journey into romance, love and loss through poetry. Handwritten in a journal and hidden away until this publication, the poems chronicle the journey into and out of love. Written in three parts, the book enables the reader to transverse the intensity of romantic love, from the first moment of falling in love, to the intense pain of heartbreak.</p>
<p>I caught up with Valerie to find out more.</p>
<p><em><strong>The collection was written over 15 years, which is a long time. What made you stick with it?</strong></em></p>
<p>I really didn&#8217;t have a choice. It was how I would deal with the realities of my life. I would be deep in a thought or an emotion, and then this pattern would form and then these words would come, and the only way to stop thinking about it was to write it down and release it.</p>
<p><em><strong>Your career has been as a ghostwriter &#8211; are there any similarities in each craft?</strong></em></p>
<p>Ghostwriting is a lot of fun. If you do it right, you essentially write as another person. You take on his character. You listen intently to his word choice and his manner of speaking. You hear this other person in your head, and  you write the words you think he would say. It&#8217;s a bit like acting. For my poetry, it&#8217;s entirely me. It&#8217;s my voice, my thoughts, my experiences.</p>
<p><em><strong>Is poetry the most natural way to explore the theme of love?</strong></em></p>
<p>I think love is such a complicated human emotion and concept that it can be explored in many ways. There are romance novels, paintings, movies, plays, etc.  Poetry is just how I explore it. It&#8217;s my way of expression.</p>
<p><em><strong>How do you stop yourself from being cliched?</strong></em></p>
<p>I just try hard to be authentic and true to myself, and then my craft follows.</p>
<p><em><strong>Your book explores the relationship between the natural elements with the emotions of love &#8211; can you explain this?</strong></em></p>
<p>There are many poems throughout the book that reference the ocean, the moon, the wind, etc. These are parts of nature that I gravitate towards. And so when you read the poems, you&#8217;ll see me talk about nature,  sometimes in a joyful way and other times to represent loss.</p>
<p><em><strong>Do you now call yourself a poet?</strong></em></p>
<p>This is a very fair question, as I&#8217;ve been struggling with this label quite a bit. I supposed publishing a book of poetry that, knock wood, so far, is well received makes me a poet. I think of myself more of a storyteller. I&#8217;m just telling a story with each poem using a limited number of words and hoping it resonates. But, I suppose I could try on the word for a little bit and see how it fits.</p>
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		<title>Hina Belitz &#8211; To Lahore, With Love &#8211; review and Q&#038;A</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2020 12:44:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Addy Mayford has always struggled with her identity, as a mixed race woman living in London, brought up by her Irish mother and Pakistani Nana, without her father&#8230;]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Addy Mayford has always struggled with her identity, as a mixed race woman living in London, brought up by her Irish mother and Pakistani Nana, without her father who died early on. Faith and food fuelled her upbringing, and despute her mother’s concerns, she’s found contentment cooking delicious recipes from his home city of Lahore. With the love of her husband Gabe, she finds contentment. When Addy stumbles across a secret that shatters her world, she desperately needs to escape and is drawn to the sights of Lahore and the family she’s never known. Waiting for her there is Addy’s final acceptance of who she is, and a long-buried family secret that will change her life for ever.</p>
<p>I raced through <a href="https://www.hinabelitz.com/">Hina Belitz</a>’s <em>To Lahore, With Love</em>. But I didn’t love it. The book feels confused. Is it literary fiction, chick lit, or a recipe book? Not that a novel needs to fit neatly into a genre, but it does need to be consistent. All the tropes of a compelling piece of commercial fiction are there. There’s a complicated upbringing, an earth shattering secret, and broken promises. But you’re never really drawn in enough.</p>
<p>The relationship between Addy and her Nan is sweet, and the way that she writes rapturously about food glorious. Belitz’s first book Sofia Kahn is not Obliged was far more compelling. I’m sure it will do brilliantly in the summer reads rounds up. It just didn’t rock my world.</p>
<p>I had a chat with Hina to learn more about her writing and the book.</p>
<p><strong><em>Is To Lahore With Love based on your own story and upbringing?</em></strong></p>
<p>Yes! <em>To Lahore With Love</em> is based on the story of my life and upbringing, although it is a fictional version, so a number of things are different. It follows of the story of how protagonist, Addy Mayford, a mixed-race girl struggles with being different and not fitting in, and how she finds happiness, only to have it all stripped away in one earth shattering moment. It also explores how the trials in her life open her up to other ways of seeing the world. Addy Mayford challenges her beliefs about how we go about meeting our soulmate. Is there a right and a wrong way? I’ve been watching the current Netflix series <em>Love Is Blind</em>, presently Number 2 on Netflix, and there are a number of parallels between <em>To Lahore With Love</em> and that show.</p>
<p>The thread of the story that follows my own life was featured in <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/aug/27/my-arranged-marriage-thrived-after-my-marriage-for-love-died">Guardian Family</a> and my interview by Morgan Freeman in <a href="https://www.bishopsstortfordindependent.co.uk/whats-on/hina-puts-family-faith-and-food-in-the-mix-for-an-uplifting-must-read-9101702/">The Story Of Us With Morgan Freeman</a> (by National Geographic).</p>
<p><strong><em>Stories, food, and faith – why are these so central to your book and to Addy?</em></strong></p>
<p>What a great question! These themes are so central to the book because they represent the gifts I have received from the strong women who have been a part of my life, particularly my mother and grandmother. I see food as a bridge to other cultures and my mother was an epic cook who expressed her love for us through her cookery. I recall how in my childhood, I genuinely felt healed after one of mum’s meals. <em>To Lahore With Love</em> explores this idea further with the protagonist Addy Mayford believing that her food can actually change a person’s mind. I tragically lost my mother a few years ago and so including the recipes was a great way to immortalise a small part of her forever.</p>
<p>My grandmother was a great storyteller reminiscent of the ancient storytelling of Scherhezade in the Arabian nights. The story Nana tells Addy in <em>To Lahore With Love</em> is a real one my grandmother actually told me. Yes, she believed she had a Djinn lover! I made a connection between the idea of compelling stories that save lives and life changing meals. So, Addy Mayford is a sort of Scherhezade of the cookery world!</p>
<p>Faith, (by which I mean trusting that there is meaning to everything), has always been a central part of my life and for this reason I wanted it to become a part of Addy’s journey through the novel. I have always been amazed at how healing a small shift in mindset can be. And that requires faith. An example is the expression, ‘what hits you was never going to miss you, what misses you was never going to hit you.’ Believing these words is an act of faith which can give enormous relief from stress and anxiety. Sometimes a small phrase can blow you away. The Nietzsche quote at the opening of the novel is an example. It highlights how much suffering arises because we not open to the idea that what happens to us may be the best thing for us, even if it doesn’t seem that way. I think that the Nietzsche’s quote embodies the idea of faith beautifully.</p>
<p><strong><em>Do you think we see enough characters from diverse backgrounds in English literature?</em></strong></p>
<p>I do not believe we see enough characters from diverse backgrounds in English literature and for this reason I am passionate about writing such characters and hopefully as a result helping to normalise Asian stories. It is important to me that Addy Mayford is a cross-cultural and multi-religious. I want her to be relatable to different sectors and communities in the world. I am really interested in the similarities and differences in the outlook people from different cultures have, from the colour foundation they choose to how they deal with adversity.</p>
<p>It’s not enough, though, to just have more characters from diverse backgrounds. We also need to ensure they form part of varied and nuanced storytelling. One of the most damaging things is repeating a single story about a certain group of people because that is exactly how prejudice and bias can form.</p>
<p><em><strong>What can people take away from your book? What do you hope it helps them consider?</strong></em></p>
<p>The first thing I hope, the key take away I would like is for people to enjoy <em>To Lahore With Love</em> and connect with Addy Mayford like a friend they wish to keep visiting. If entering into Addy’s world introduces them to notions about people from other cultures and religions that they didn’t have before, that would be wonderful. Ultimately, I hope it helps people consider the great benefits of expanding your mind to understand and embrace any sort of ‘otherness.’</p>
<p><strong><em>What’s your writing process or routine? Do you plan, pants, follow the character or something else?</em></strong></p>
<p>My process is very organic. Before starting, I read around the subjects I am writing about and research a fair bit. I do make story plans in gorgeous Italian notebooks I buy from TK Maxx, but I mostly find I abandon them as the novel writing itself begins. I need silence to work and not only zero interuption, but no possibility of interruption, so I often go to the loft in our home or a library, like the Cambridge University Library. I get my best ideas in the shower, which is highly inconvenient, or sometimes in the dead of night when I should be asleep. In the end, it is hard hard work that leads to small openings and ideas which gradually accumulate. I am a real believer in the notion that the brain continues to work when you think you have signed off. And like Addy, I yearn for those moment of <em>Lecto divino,</em> those glimmers of transcendence when in the throes of creation, because when they do come, they are worth every moment of the hard graft involved in creating something original.</p>
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		<title>An interview with Sarah Dickinson, author of Silver Spoons ; One&#8217;s Journey Through Addiction</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Feb 2020 08:18:52 +0000</pubDate>
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An interview with Sarah Dickinson, author of <em>Silver Spoons ; One&#8217;s Journey Through Addiction</em>. The book takes an intimate and raw look at the current face of addiction and recovery. Talking about the current opioid epidemic, we follow a young couple while one of them goes through the recovery process. Told through letters, we get an understanding of their relationship as it struggles through his addiction and resulting recovery. From detox, rehab, sober living and the 12 steps of A.A, you get a raw and honest look at the effects of addiction and how they affect relationships.









<strong><em>Why did you decide to write this book?</em></strong>





The main reason I decided to write this was because when I was in the middle of experiencing life with an addict who entered rehab, I had no clue how to be supportive and not lose myself. Every story I found about addiction ended when the addict entered rehab. There were so many of these stories that exploited the bad behavior of an addict but not much more than that. With the opioid epidemic growing at such a rate you’re hard pressed to find someone not affected by addiction. Struggling with it or watching someone they love struggling.





<strong><em>Is the story drawn from life?</em></strong>





While there were so many cathartic moments writing this book and the feedback has brought me such happiness it was painful. It was painful enough to go through some of these experiences and writing this story forced me to re-live some of my worst moments. I was unprepared to feel the level of pain that I did when other addicts shared their own painful experiences with me.





<strong><em>Was it ever painful?</em></strong>





Every aspect of the book was drawn from life, but not solely mine. There are many situations and conversations that are direct from my own personal life, but they have been fictionalized in one way or another. There are also a handful of situations and experiences that have come from other addicts, or the people who love them. People who shared their stories when I was researching addiction. Every character in the book is inspired by someone that I personally know as well.





<strong><em>Why take an epistolary approach?</em></strong>





I decided to use an epistolary approach for freedom and emotion. I felt it was the most effective way to create empathy and understanding for addicts. So often people struggling with addiction are stigmatized to the level of being dehumanized. They are viewed as their addiction and not the people they are fully. I felt that using letters put their humanity in the face of the readers. It also allowed a level of freedom in my writing, to introduce information without sounding like a textbook, to use some of my personal language. Mainly words and phrases that are not proper grammar, but that I use.





<strong><em>If the story is drawn from your own life, was writing cathartic and therapeutic?</em></strong>





Writing this book was extremely cathartic, and many times sitting down to write felt like entering a therapy session. It helped me do more than just purge my feelings and events. I was able to reflect on so many aspects of my life. Not just addiction. My father suffered from dementia, as well as the MC’S mother did. So, there were many personal issues I was able to look at as well. In all honesty I probably was only able to heal and grow from these experiences as quickly as I did because I wrote this book.





<strong><em>How did you do your research?</em></strong>





I did my research by reading everything I could find about addiction and recovery. I read the Big Book of A.A. and quite a few scholarly articles as well. Articles from a scientific as well as psychology standpoint. I also went to A.A. and ALANON meetings. I was given a sponsor, talked to many addicts at these meetings, and worked the 1 step. When I say I went to A.A., I would like to add that there was full transparency. Every person at those meetings knew why I was there, and I was not an addict myself. There were many closed meetings that I was not allowed to go to because of this, and I was extremely grateful how willing people were to help me understand who they were.

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