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					<description><![CDATA[It often feels (to me at least) that motherhood is one of the last social taboos. Can you have it all? Are full time mothers wasting their potential?&#8230;]]></description>
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<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg">It often feels (to me at least) that motherhood is one of the last social taboos. Can you have it all? Are full time mothers wasting their potential? Are those who choose not to have children wasting denying their sex? Is it the best thing ever? Can you find it wonderful and woeful all at the same time? Does it change you? Does becoming a mother affect your sense of self? Does this change in life change who you are? How are the physical, social or political aspects of your identity altered by motherhood?</p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg">The <strong><a href="https://themotherhoodandidentityproject.wordpress.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Motherhood &amp; Identity Project</a></strong> explore all of this and more. Ahead of their recording, zine, workshop and showcase as part of International Women&#8217;s Day, I have a chat with one of the founders of the project Katy Lockey.</p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg"><strong>Why do you do what you do?</strong></p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg">There is no short or witty answer to this.  This is one of a few projects I have running <span id="0.08171406528351155" class="highlight">and</span> they all boil down to one thing really,  which is bringing people together in community, encouraging <span id="0.054750035540089614" class="highlight">and</span> facilitating groups <span id="0.34368191385103786" class="highlight">and</span> spaces where people can make authentic connections and share their own experiences. A few years ago Catherine (Sangster) <span id="0.09513370886852113" class="highlight">and</span> I attended a Think In as part of International Women&#8217;s Day, where they were asking &#8216;how can we engage more local women with this programme <span id="0.9916272416507013" class="highlight">and</span> these issues?&#8217;  We noticed that there was no provision for mothers caring for young children , often a barrier to attending cultural events . We proposed a workshop that parents could attend with their young children present,  in 2015 on Raising Children <span id="0.08546945992522414" class="highlight">and </span>Resisting Sexism , then in 2016 we focused on <span id="0.7891410779452819" class="highlight">Motherhood</span> <span id="0.44216468562512246" class="highlight">and</span> <span id="0.14464494243664205" class="highlight">Identity</span> in particular.</p>
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<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg">Do we still need feminism? h yes.</p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg">Oh yes.</p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg"><strong>Do you think that creative </strong>events  can<strong> be useful, or is just masking over the structural <span id="0.10373273560476681" class="highlight">and</span> political issues?</strong></p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg">I think that consciousness raising is never wasted.  Forums for the discussions of ideas <span id="0.4835402142744174" class="highlight">and</span> ideologies are essential . Art is a powerful tool for comment <span id="0.14868006412226298" class="highlight">and</span> provocation .</p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg"><strong>The theme for this year’s International Women’s Day is ‘be bold for change’ – how is your work bold <span id="0.11589596231641242" class="highlight">and</span> how does it encourage others to be bold?</strong></p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg">I had not considered before what is bold about our work. There is a certain boldness in claiming public space for women with babies on their hips <span id="0.16972709149487297" class="highlight">and</span> noisy messy small children to be welcomed in <span id="0.7032635967831" class="highlight">and</span> to have their ideas heard. So much potential is lost when we treat women in this stage of life as only care givers, or only value their contributions when they leave their family elsewhere.</p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg">The women who opened up <span id="0.2768189016789666" class="highlight">and</span> shared their very honest reflections <span id="0.11054902147891377" class="highlight">and</span> responses to the project have been extraordinarily bold.  We have been so privileged to have been entrusted with these very personal <span id="0.9974891047369365" class="highlight">and</span> intimate stories.</p>
<p class="x_inbox-inbox-m_-2958291459650085286x_MsoNormal x_gmail_msg"> I hope that it does encourage others to be bold. I hope that women reading our work <span id="0.20582922472062992" class="highlight">and</span> coming to the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/events/896674583868088/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Brewery Tap</a> to hear the sound pieces <span id="0.24505151367291123" class="highlight">and</span> to interact with the project will feel emboldened by the stories of our participants. <span id="0.0823720743857741" class="highlight">And</span> I also hope that the project itself will encourage others to get involved, <span id="0.42578677198411885" class="highlight">and</span> make art, respond creatively to what they care about. Catherine <span id="0.19593660328741147" class="highlight">and</span> I are both mothers <span id="0.9375906413279149" class="highlight">and</span> the whole project has been done in the margins of our work <span id="0.40539674154046046" class="highlight">and</span> family responsibilities.  It&#8217;s easy for women to be swallowed up by these demands.  I was so encouraged when a woman who had contributed to the 2016 project wrote to me to tell me how inspiring she found it, <span id="0.3233961278090389" class="highlight">and</span> how those reflections have led her to start to find her new, post baby, creative voice <span id="0.7735056893292223" class="highlight">and</span> practice. She has an exciting project in the works right now.  That is a kind of boldness I am happy to claim for our project!</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[March 8th is the annual International Women&#8217;s Day, celebrated globally. Since its beginnings in the 1900s IWD grown in its mission to celebrate the unity of women, females&#8230;]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>March 8th is the annual <strong><a href="https://www.internationalwomensday.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">International Women&#8217;s Day</a></strong>, celebrated globally. Since its beginnings in the 1900s IWD grown in its mission to celebrate the unity of women, females and girls around the world, whilst at the same time advocating gender parity. Some ask whether we still need such a day, but when you consider that illiteracy, employment, violence and poverty all limit women harder than men, it’s startlingly clear that we do. But IWD isn’t just about raising awareness about the bad – it’s all about celebrating the good. Artists, politicians, scientists, mothers, friends, activists – women have played all of these roles, and continue to do so.</p>
<p>Folkestone&#8217;s creative hub will be marking the event with a whole host of events that demonstrate harmony, celebration, reflection, advocacy and action &#8211; through the creative angle. This year’s theme is ‘<em>#BeBoldForChange</em>’ and the <a href="https://www.quarterhouse.co.uk/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Quarterhouse </a>programme embraces this. February and March are packed with films, talks, workshops and events that inspire and demonstrate the power and potential of women.</p>
<p>On <a href="https://wowkent.co.uk/articles/review-hollie-mcnish-at-folkestone-quarterhouse-by-francesca-baker/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">February 11<sup>th</sup></a> <strong>Hollie McNish</strong>, poet, writer and performer spoke about and read from her latest book, Nobody Told Me, stories and poetry about motherhood. She is completely convinced that we still need feminism, and sees creativity as playing a bit part in this. ‘I think creativity really is one of the best parts of humanity…and often brings out the structural and political issues I think and makes them easy to engage with in so many different ways. Hearing midwives say they’ve snuck my poems into hospital wards is probably the current highlight!’</p>
<p><a href="https://holliepoetry.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class=" size-full wp-image-7571 aligncenter" src="https://andsoshethinks.files.wordpress.com/2017/03/holliemcnish.jpg" alt="holliemcnish" width="320" height="320" srcset="https://andsoshethinks.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/holliemcnish.jpg 320w, https://andsoshethinks.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/holliemcnish-300x300.jpg 300w, https://andsoshethinks.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/holliemcnish-150x150.jpg 150w, https://andsoshethinks.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/holliemcnish-120x120.jpg 120w" sizes="(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p>
<p>Motherhood clearly changes things for women, and through their sessions the <a href="https://themotherhoodandidentityproject.wordpress.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Motherhood &amp; Identity Project</strong> </a>are seeking personal testimonies and autobiographical exploration of what this might look and feel like through physical, social, or political aspects through workshops and an exhibition at <strong><a href="https://themotherhoodandidentityproject.wordpress.com/2017/02/21/join-us-in-the-brewery-tap-march-9-10-11-2017/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Brewery</a></strong>. It seems that even in an age where choice is apparently celebrated, that choice only counts when it is career orientated.</p>
<p>As Catherine from the project says &#8216;There is a certain boldness in claiming public space for women with babies on their hips <span id="0.26233299232710494" class="highlight">and</span> noisy messy small children to be welcomed in <span id="0.07203638522640832" class="highlight">and</span> to have their ideas heard. So much potential is lost when we treat women in this stage of life as only caregivers, or only value their contributions when they leave their family elsewhere.&#8217;</p>
<p>Ethnicity and nationality are also in the spotlight. <strong><a href="http://blacktheatrelive.co.uk/tours/the-diary-of-a-hounslow-girl" target="_blank" rel="noopener">In The Diary of a Hounslow Girl</a></strong> on Mar 29<sup>th</sup>, by Ambreen Razia with Black Theatre Live shows the experiences and challenges of growing up amongst the city temptations as a 16 year old Muslim girl. Comedian Bridget Christie’s acclaimed show <strong><a href="https://www.quarterhouse.co.uk/whats-on/bridget-christie-andndash-because-you-demanded-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Because You Asked For It</a></strong> (Mar 31<sup>st</sup>) challenges us to think about what leaving the EU means – all through humour and a bold female voice.</p>
<p>It’s not just gender that plays a role &#8211; age, ethnicity and social class all impact and diversify the lives of women. <strong><a href="https://www.facebook.com/BossyGirlsProject/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Boss(y) Girls</a> </strong>is for and by young women aged 13 to 25 who are passionate about empowerment and speaking out. Their workshops offer the opportunity to talk, design, create, meet like-minded people and have fun. Inspired by Beyoncé’s words, &#8216;I’m not Bossy, I’m the Boss&#8217; boldness infiltrates every part of the project. As founder Emma says ‘this project is all about teaching young women to be bold, and that you don&#8217;t just have to accept things the way they are &#8211; you can change them.’ &#8216;Guerilla girl action&#8217; is on the agenda, where the team will be sharing the outputs from their collaborative sessions.</p>
<p><a href="https://andsoshethinks.wordpress.com/2017/03/01/creative-community-changemakers/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7574" src="https://andsoshethinks.files.wordpress.com/2017/03/bossygirls.jpg" alt="bossygirls" width="720" height="960" srcset="https://andsoshethinks.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/bossygirls.jpg 720w, https://andsoshethinks.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/bossygirls-225x300.jpg 225w, https://andsoshethinks.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/bossygirls-370x493.jpg 370w, https://andsoshethinks.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/bossygirls-410x547.jpg 410w, https://andsoshethinks.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/bossygirls-600x800.jpg 600w" sizes="(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px" /></a></p>
<p>At the other end of the age spectrum, but not necessarily issues, <strong><a href="https://www.quarterhouse.co.uk/whats-on/older-women-rock" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Older Women Rock!</a></strong> is an innovative project run and devised by Leah Thorne, whose work explores identity and liberation. They’ll be combining visual arts, poetry and vintage clothing to raise awareness and explore issues that face women in their mid-50s to early 70s. As well as a pop-up shop and exhibition at the Space Gallery, a panel discussion on Mar 11<sup>th</sup>, a debate with the founders of the iconic magazine <em>Spare Rib</em>, the <em>Women Over 50 Film Festival</em> (Mar 1<sup>st</sup>), screenings of Carrie Greenham’s <em>Home</em> (Feb 22<sup>nd</sup>) and <em>Stories from the She-Punks</em> (Mar 8<sup>th</sup>) they host the brilliant <em>Profanity Embroidery Group</em> on Mar 5<sup>th</sup> for an embroidery session to stich not frills and flowers, but controversial but necessary phrases on and in their clothes.</p>
<p>Subverting stereotypes through a ‘feminine’ activity sounds like a brilliant twist, and Professor Julia Twigg, Professor of Social Policy and Sociology at the University of Kent and a huge advocate of the work says that such activities are ‘vital’ to women. ‘I certainly want to endorse the responses of women to dress that are bold, whether through the wildness of their dress, or through their refusal to be bothered by it. I think we need each other to be bold.’</p>
<p>Entrenched attitudes are not easy to shift.  But creativity can help us think about and challenge these patterns, and give everyone the confidence to do so as part of such a collective event. From boldness great change can come. It certainly will be coming out of Folkestone this spring.</p>
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